Arriving in Texas was a huge relief. It meant we were one step closer to making a new home for ourselves here. Not to say that I wasn't still full of anxiety - would I get everything together for the kids to start school off well a few days later? Would I be able to find good replacements for our pediatrician, dentist, piano teacher, other doctors and so much more? Would my kids feel at home and make new friends? Would I? I have moved so many times that I really knew that the answer to those questions was yes, because the Lord would bless us, but the timing is what was up in the air.
As we drove to the Airbnb that would be our home for the next six weeks, we passed the San Antonio Temple, and seeing it there, so close to us, gave me an extra measure of comfort and peace. And it still does, as I end up driving by it about six or more times a day. (And when we move into our house, it will be even closer. Such a blessing!!
We arrived late on Wednesday evening, and so my first order of business on Thursday was to stock our rental with food and supplies, and so that meant a trip to Costco. And I may have overdid it a bit, but really, we needed things - lots of things, and so at one point I switched out my cart for one of the flat ones, so I could fit everything on there. And I found the best find! A container of white queso - my favorite, and so yummy! I was also frantically shopping for school supplies for the kids, since we had to drop Arthur's off at the school at Meet the Teacher that afternoon. It was crazy! (And yes, I totally came back to Costco later that day for a few things that I forgot or couldn't fit on my cart on my earlier trip. This time I had Arthur as my shopping buddy.)
I got home just long enough to grab some lunch and grab Derek, and then it was off to his meeting with the school counselor to get him registered for classes. It went really well, and we got to tour the school. Afterward, Derek and I hunted for more school supplies, and luckily, Office Depot was the winner, and we were able to get what we needed. While we were gone, Arthur was busy finding ways to entertain himself without having a house full of toys and books, like he is used to. He also put on the Picachu Pokemon costume that he picked out when we were at Costco. Good times.
After Derek and I got back, it was time to take Arthur to his school to drop off supplies and to meet the teacher. He had a blast, and afterward we went to Costco for a few things and then brought home one of their pizzas for dinner. And I proceeded to collapse on the couch, as I was exhausted from going nonstop all day. As I looked up, I noticed that the vent in the ceiling was filthy! I was afraid to sit under it, for fear that gross chunks of dust and things would fall on my head, and so I put my tall son to work and had him vacuum it. So much better.
Derek and Arthur only had one real day left of summer break, and so they played games, watched a few shows, and played video games before all the work would begin on Monday. The best was watching them play with their Pokémon cards with Arthur in his costume. Good times!
The place we are staying is about ten minutes north of where the house we are buying is located. It is a little more in the country, and so we see deer every morning and evening. I love seeing them as I am walking or driving through the neighborhood, but my favorite thing is how Arthur had been keeping a running count of our deer sightings (even though we are seeing the same twenty deer over and over - ha ha!)
Getting outside for a walk/jog out with the deer has been one of my mental health savers and happy places. Actually, any daily workout has been a life saver for me. It gives me a break and lets me set aside my worries and other responsibilities for 30-45 minutes and just be. So grateful to get them in six times a week.
We are so grateful for the Airbnb we are staying in. It is big and we have a full kitchen. It may be a little less clean and well maintained as I would have liked, but I had my minions help me get it clean enough to feel better (I am holding myself back from deep cleaning and doing repairs - ha ha!). There are also quite a few critters - like a ton of giant black hornets and this massive spider that has a huge web right above the door to the back yard. It is so creepy and huge, that I am afraid to go outside, for fear that it will drop on my head. In fact, I told the kids that the backyard was off limits because of the spider. The worst though, is that my view from the kitchen table is totally of the window with the spider in it. Eww!
One of the things I am having to get used to again, after a six year break, is school drop off/pick up lines. It is the worst, and the lines are crazy long. And it is pretty hot. What has made it really bad, is that my air conditioner in the car has gone out, and so I sit there in the heat with the windows down, praying for a breeze in the 90+ degree heat while I wait. Luckily, I have made a new friend, and we are going to start carpooling next week. Hallelujah!!
Speaking of my van, on Friday, after getting Arthur from school, and swinging by McDonalds for some food for him (since the older kids were going to an activity at the high school later on), I noticed that not only was the AC not working, but the engine temperature was past the H for hot, which I knew was not good. And just as we were about to a gas station, the engine lights went on, and the car shuddered and died. Miraculously, I was able to coast into the gas station and rolled up to a pump (in the shade). Afraid to do anything to the car, I called the mechanic that I had an appointment with for Monday to fix the AC. He told me not to start the car, but have it towed to them. I then called roadside assistance and Arthur and I melted for two hours while we waited for the tow truck. But a few more miracles happened:
- Arthur had a Happy Meal just sitting there waiting to be eaten. And I had an eclair that I had bought at Kneaders next door.
- I called my brand new friend Brandi, and she not only picked up Lily to go get Derek, but then loaned us a car for the weekend, which meant that we could not only get places, but Lily was still able to take Derek to the Rattler Roundup at his school.
- The amazing mechanic shop I had found was not only super helpful, but they sent a Lyft to come take Arthur and I from the gas station to the Airbnb - wow!! And hey, because of the wonky AC, I had already done the research, found the shop, and had an appointment with them. Oh, and on Saturday morning, they gave me a nice loaner car to use for free for the whole time the van was getting repaired.
- Our van did NOT die while we were driving here from Pennsylvania, or while Lily was driving, or on the freeway, etc, etc. It died on a hill next to a gas station, so that I could coast into it and be safe - and in the shade.
I could go on and on with all the tender mercies that took place, but one of my favorite things happened later that evening when the older kids were home and we were all together. I took a walk in the neighborhood to clear my head and gain some peace, and there along the side of the road, were about twenty deer, a bunch of them fawns and even a few bucks. They just looked at me and kept on munching the grass, so I texted Lily to have them all come out and join me. It was such a special moment to share with my kids, and helped ease our worries for a bit.
The biggest tender mercy, however, was that I was able to attend the temple on Saturday. Right now you can only go by appointment, and I was able to go the the beautiful San Antonio Temple to do inniatories. Being there was just the balm to my heavy and downtrodden soul that I needed, I felt so very blessed to be in that sacred building. (And while I was there, Lily took the boys to the theater to see the new Paw Patrol movie, which was a fun thing that they needed after a long week.)
So, are we settled here in Texas yet? No, far from it. We still aren't even sure when we will get to close on our house here, as the closing on our house in PA has been delayed. But hey, we are making friends, we are being blessed, and although things are a bit messy right now, we know we are where the Lord wants our family to be.